Frequently asked questions

What do I need to do to prepare for a date? 
I take both my and your health seriously. Just as I shower before each date, I ask that you do the same. I’ll also have mints and mouthwash for both of us. If you have any sort of fragrance allergy, please let me know ahead of time.

Where are you based?
I spend most of my time in Los Angeles, but frequently visit the central Coast and Bay Area, as well as New York and Washington DC. I grew up all over the world and I’d love to swap travel stories with you; we can start by discussing the time I herded sheep in Switzerland.

May I leave you a review?
I value my privacy and yours; for that reason, I do not permit reviews as our time together is sacred. I do have a slight praise kink and love good prose; feel free to send me a thoughtful note after our date and I might feature it as a testimonial here.

May I pay in crypto?
Yes, I accept Bitcoin; I’ll send you a secure wallet link prior to our date.

May I see a picture of your face? 
Out of respect for my own discretion and those with whom I choose to spend time, I don’t share pictures of my face. I promise you will enjoy looking into my hazel eyes; think of a young Jennifer Connelly or Demi Moore.

Will you provide a reference for me?
I’m happy to provide a reference for you within 12 months of us meeting; however, out of respect for your privacy, I will never confirm a reference unless you notify me ahead of time.

May I request an outfit?
I will do my best to honor outfit requests within reason. The best way to ensure this is to send me a gift card to Fleur du Mal or Honey Birdette and let me know which outfit you’ve been eyeing.